a meme that LOOKS like it's about Sugar D but really it's about me

1. Who is your man?

Sugar D

2. How long have you been together?

8 years

3. How long did you date?

5 years

4. How old is your man?

35

5. Who eats more?

He does.

6. Who said "I love you" first?

He did.

7. Who is taller?

He is -- by 1 inch

8. Who sings better?

We both sing horribly, but I’d have to say that I sing better. Or at least I sing more and he asks me to stop.

9. Who is smarter?

This is a tough one. He's probably smarter in a purely intellectual way but I may be smarter in a more pragmatic way. He remembers dates and names from books, whereas I remember street names and when to pay bills in real life.

10. Whose temper is worse?

Mine. It fires faster and more often, though his slow burn can be impressive -- about once a year.

11. Who does the laundry?

I do.

12. Who takes out the garbage?

He does.

13. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?

I do.

14. Who pays the bills?

I do.

15. Who is better with the computer?

He is.

16. Who mows the lawn?

I do.

17. Who cooks dinner?

Right now, with him gone for 12 hours a day, I do. Years ago, he did ALL the cooking (he makes delicious curries). But over the years I have slowly learned to cook and now my repertoire is big enough to carry us (mostly) through the week. When he worked in the same town, it was probably a 50-50 split.

18. Who drives when you are together?

We usually split it for longer drives. I drive there and he drives back. But I probably drive a bit more than he does when we're driving around town.

19. Who pays when you go out?

He does. Not that it matters because we pool all our money.

20. Who is most stubborn?

I am. Though he gives me a frustratingly good run for my money.

21. Who is the first to admit when they are wrong?

Well, I'm the first to admit when HE'S wrong. I'm probably also the first to admit when I'm wrong, but it happens so rarely it's hard to remember.

22. Whose parents do you see the most?

We see his mom most frequently but for shorter visits. We probably see more of my parents when all the hours are totaled.

23. Who kissed who first?

Oh crap. I seriously can't remember. I could probably reconstruct a version of it but what would be the point. It was probably mutual.

24. Who asked who out?

I asked him out, but he'd already given me his phone number and blushed and stammered.

25. Who proposed?

He did. Unless you count all the times I told him I wanted him to propose.

26. Who is more sensitive?

I am.

27. Who has more friends?

I do.

28. Who has more siblings?

I do. He's an only child.

29. Who wears the pants in the family?

I do. He knows it and I know it.



PS Sugar D would like it known that he also does the dishes, feeds the cat, cleans the litterbox, and finds it unfair that those questions weren't on the exam.